I am a big believer in physical attraction/chemistry as the starting point of a potential relationship. Without chemistry, there is no point in going any further. I believe there has to be a balance of give and take in a relationship.
I'm jus a fellow BBW kinkster who wants 2 tap into her kinks more but needs someone who knows how 2 lead properly and safely. I need someone who knows how to handle curves n is not afraid to show it.
🥀Curvy, Kinky and Done Being The Boss🥀
Hello. Let’s lead with the best part: I am a proud, beautiful BBW who knows exactly what she brings to the table. If you view my profile and say nothing, I will assume my body type isn’t of your liking and I will not pursue you, as I respect your preference.
I’m here seeking a true Dominant, a partner in this kink life, not a temporary distraction. If you’re looking for a quick hook-up, keep scrolling; I’m interested in depth, connection, and a dynamic that lasts.
I am a Switch by nature, but my heart lives in submission. After years of taking the lead in my life and past relationships, I am ready to let go of the reins. I crave a hand that guides me through sensory play, soft bondage, and impact. I live for praise, thrive under orgasm control, and deeply value the intimacy of aftercare.
A note for the right man📝: While I desire to be your submissive, I do love the sound of a man's praise. Every so often, I might take charge just long enough to make you beg while I pleasure you—a rare treat for us both. However, if you are strictly a Top, I am more than happy to remain at your feet.⛓️
I know my worth and my beauty. If plus-sized women aren't your preference, or if you can't handle a "no" with maturity, let’s save each other the time. To the Alpha who sees the woman behind the kink: I’m waiting.💋
Dominant Goddess so watch how u approach… not here to be ur next “hook up” I don’t submit to No One so please don’t waste my time I like other male doms for the challenge I’m an Aries don’t come in my inbox if ur not looking for public n private friendship or if u have nothing going for urself. Ideally my goal is to have two male partners that equally can coexist let’s chat see where it leads
This isn't my first rodeo on Fet or being a part of the bdsm community, but it has been a long while since I've been actively looking for some new fun.
First and foremost, if you spend more than 3 minutes with me you will know that: I am transparent as hell, funny as fuck, and some of the best sex you will ever have.
In the vein of keeping it real I have lost about 300lbs (no surgery) so as you can imagine my body looks exactly like one would think... I'd say melted snowman adjacent. I believe in being up front and honest I know that is not everyone's cup of tea and that is perfectly OK but what we not fittin' to do is pretend like you down for that and you ain't. Im good. When I'm riding your ass to glory or taking backs shots like a G all my shit will be clapping. If you ain't into that .. cool.. exit stage left... lets not waste each other's time.
Now if you're still reading lets talk shop... I am open. I am looking for a good time, I like good vibes and energy. I am a NO strings attached type. We can hang out, chill, get drinks/dinner, just meet up and fuck, whatever. Im really easy going, no drama, no craziness, etc!!! Ideally, would like to find someone close by and consistent who I could get railed by whenever I want it! But please don't hit me up if you don't eat pussy for your pleasure because I suck dick for mine. I enjoy men and women both, but I am not looking to play with women individually unless you really spark my interest.
If you have questions about specifics feel free to message me privately and ask me anything.
Ask me to be your mistress or to be my slave and I’ll be blunt and tell you no. I will call you out for it too. If you can’t take the time to respect what I wrote I won’t bother coddling you.
Honestly I’m not expecting much. This is new to me and while I can be outgoing I’m a fairly shy person at first. I’d love to meet someone and explore an intimate and romantic relationship if possible. I’m a romantic woman at heart, but past experiences and traumas make the physical aspects a little hard for me. That’s not a thing to pity or feel sorry over, simply the truth. I want to overcome that though and I’ve found BDSM has a healing aspect to it for myself. I like to tease a lot via texting/phone calls and I may seem forward, but in person I will need some patience to grow more comfortable. Submission is something I want to give to someone who makes me feel safe and who will take control so I do not have to. I can also be dominant, but I prefer a soft domme take on things.
I am not dominant. Just because I can be doesn’t mean it’s my usual go to. I’m not interested in being a mistress or anyone’s goddess quite frankly. I’m a princess, a good girl, or mommy if I’m feeling my domme side.
I’mtoo soft hearted. I can be emotional. I just want to be loved and to love. I want someone I can be freaky with, but more than anything I want someone I can feel safe with. Looks are important to a point and after that dull conversation and someone who shows no real intelligence is boring. I am independent and I can handle my own, but I want someone who can let me feel like a woman without feeling guilty for being cared for. I give my loyalty, heart, trust, and submission only to someone who shows me they deserve it.
I am: your princess, your good girl, your slut or whore, your cumdump, and your mommy (I like being called this regardless of my mood though if I’m feeling dommy I would prefer this), yours and absolutely no one else’s
I am not: your mistress, your goddess, your domme, your queen, a slave, a little, here to be used for pleasure only and given none
For the love of all things good and not so holy, I am not a dominant person stop coming to me asking me to domme you. I do NOT want to be the dominant person; I am submissive.
I am non-monogamous. Married and also have a long term boyfriend. Getting a feel for the community, open to meeting new people and seeing where things go….
Would love to find an experienced Dominant (male or female) to help me explore my limits in a friends-with-benefits type of relationship. I’ve had my toes in the water with BDSM/kink for a few years but am wanting to wade in a little further with someone more experienced, who I have no emotional history with. But I do need to like you, so MAGA supporters need not apply. That’s pretty much my only dealbreaker.
I am shy at first, but get me started talking about stuff I'm interested in, and I'm yapping. I'm AuDHD. A huge nerd. Crafty. I will ask to watch anime every time we turn on the TV 📺 I'm an active person, specifically roller/ice skating. I work hard and I have a Boss mentality in my everyday life. I just wanna be babied 🥺😩😘 It gets reciprocated 💜 I match energies.
Not here looking for a random hookup. I want to find a permanent experienced Dom that can lead, protect and provide. I am very sensitive but also very bratty. 🤭 I would love to marry my permanent dom and let him breed me whenever he pleases. I will be his free use slave/ pet everyday of the week.
***I dont have the desire to be shared or to share****
Looking for some fun. Happily Married. Open to men, women, and couples. We would enjoy finding our unicorn or someone to come be able to blow my back out. He enjoys watching and will join in from time to time if the feelings right. No cuckolding more voyeurism. Been in this life style for a few years now. Come chat and lets have some fun 😜 not looking for anything huge please be packing average size
I'm here to talk with others and see where things go. If possible, I want to find someone who can tie me up.
I love ***s, being outside, video games, anime, and crocheting.
Ask me anything!
Also... apologies in advance because I'm pretty forgetful because I get wrapped up in whatever I'm doing. I blame the neurodivergence.
Need a b1tch boy who’s also handsome with a decent package nothing too above average. I have beautiful lil feetsies that need lots of affection. You must be wiling to run errands for me and do what I asked of yo, If you aren’t ready to be my B1ch boy don’t message me I don’t have time to waste.
Not interested in bi men.
So I am a huge marshmallow, the sweetest woman you’ll ever meet. I have a bubbly personality and wear my heart on my shoulders. I love LOVE and desire it in its purest and true form. I am naturally submissive and want to submit to my HIM. I’m nurturing, extremely affectionate and yearn to be with my man any chance I get.
I am looking for a dom that fulfills my emotional needs; one who makes me feel safe in his arms and presence. Just as my dom needs to earn my trust and submission I aim to do the same for his dominance. Respect is key.
I am looking for something fun and exciting that has the potential to turn into something more. I’m looking for someone who will help me explore this kinkier side of myself but not just for his own benefit. I’ve had lots of offers for one-nighters, which I am not interested in. Playing around is great, but I would like to find a consistent, full-time play partner who I can relax with.
I love rough fucking, being used as a fuck toy for someone’s pleasure, being ***d, spanked, taking my punishments, sucking cock. All kinds of fun things. I will try most anything at least once, maybe even twice unless it involves my limits. I have a very open mind-it takes quite a bit to offend me.
420 friendly
I like ***, just not extreme ***. *** to the correct areas will give me the most amazing orgasms.
Caveat emptor. I can be clingy. And bratty. And bitchy. But, I can also be a very good girl for the right man ??
If I only know you from Fet and you see me in public, no, you didn’t.
Limits:
Marks that a bathing suit can’t cover
***
***
***
Extreme ***
Feet (my own, please don’t touch)
*** regarding my body
Drama
Not currently willing to see anyone who is married or in a relationship.
I love to be called good girl. I love good morning and good night texts. I love cuddling and touching that isn’t sexual.
And, if you’ve made it this far I think you should know I am a big girl. I’m chubby. I throw this out there because some guys aren’t into that and I get it. I’m 5’1”. I weigh about 200 pounds. I have big tits. I don’t really have any full body pics because I don’t like having pics taken but if we are chatting and hitting if off, I might agree to send you something if you ask nicely ☺️
That’s the sexy stuff. Send me a message and we can talk about the other stuff ?
This about me is a work in progress, so I will update it as I think of things to add.
(I’m not poly!! Respectfully I don’t want to be your third
I’ve been a sub for 10+ years, long story…... I’m a sarcastic brat/little with a kind heart. Hopefully I can make new friends and meet new people and when the time is right find my person, I’m in no rush. I know what I’m looking for, and my standards for a Dom are high. I don’t settle and I won’t settle for less.
If your looking for a “sub” to just use and take advantage of that’s not me. I don’t trade pictures.
I don’t do hook ups or w.e you would like to call it so if that’s what you want don’t even message me, that would be a waste of both our times. l intend on leaving a little sparkle everywhere I go ✨✨
If you wanna talk and get to know me don’t be shy just message me.
-Talk to me nice or don’t talk to me twice. I’m not a sexual object, you are not my Dom. I’m a human treat me like one. I will definitely block you.
I am a big believer in physical attraction/chemistry as the starting point of a potential relationship. Without chemistry, there is no point in going any further. I believe there has to be a balance of give and take in a relationship.
I'm jus a fellow BBW kinkster who wants 2 tap into her kinks more but needs someone who knows how 2 lead properly and safely. I need someone who knows how to handle curves n is not afraid to show it.
Dominant Goddess so watch how u approach… not here to be ur next “hook up” I don’t submit to No One so please don’t waste my time I like other male doms for the challenge I’m an Aries don’t come in my inbox if ur not looking for public n private friendship or if u have nothing going for urself. Ideally my goal is to have two male partners that equally can coexist let’s chat see where it leads
I am non-monogamous. Married and also have a long term boyfriend. Getting a feel for the community, open to meeting new people and seeing where things go….
Would love to find an experienced Dominant (male or female) to help me explore my limits in a friends-with-benefits type of relationship. I’ve had my toes in the water with BDSM/kink for a few years but am wanting to wade in a little further with someone more experienced, who I have no emotional history with. But I do need to like you, so MAGA supporters need not apply. That’s pretty much my only dealbreaker.
This isn't my first rodeo on Fet or being a part of the bdsm community, but it has been a long while since I've been actively looking for some new fun.
First and foremost, if you spend more than 3 minutes with me you will know that: I am transparent as hell, funny as fuck, and some of the best sex you will ever have.
In the vein of keeping it real I have lost about 300lbs (no surgery) so as you can imagine my body looks exactly like one would think... I'd say melted snowman adjacent. I believe in being up front and honest I know that is not everyone's cup of tea and that is perfectly OK but what we not fittin' to do is pretend like you down for that and you ain't. Im good. When I'm riding your ass to glory or taking backs shots like a G all my shit will be clapping. If you ain't into that .. cool.. exit stage left... lets not waste each other's time.
Now if you're still reading lets talk shop... I am open. I am looking for a good time, I like good vibes and energy. I am a NO strings attached type. We can hang out, chill, get drinks/dinner, just meet up and fuck, whatever. Im really easy going, no drama, no craziness, etc!!! Ideally, would like to find someone close by and consistent who I could get railed by whenever I want it! But please don't hit me up if you don't eat pussy for your pleasure because I suck dick for mine. I enjoy men and women both, but I am not looking to play with women individually unless you really spark my interest.
If you have questions about specifics feel free to message me privately and ask me anything.
Looking for some fun. Happily Married. Open to men, women, and couples. We would enjoy finding our unicorn or someone to come be able to blow my back out. He enjoys watching and will join in from time to time if the feelings right. No cuckolding more voyeurism. Been in this life style for a few years now. Come chat and lets have some fun 😜 not looking for anything huge please be packing average size
I am shy at first, but get me started talking about stuff I'm interested in, and I'm yapping. I'm AuDHD. A huge nerd. Crafty. I will ask to watch anime every time we turn on the TV 📺 I'm an active person, specifically roller/ice skating. I work hard and I have a Boss mentality in my everyday life. I just wanna be babied 🥺😩😘 It gets reciprocated 💜 I match energies.
Need a b1tch boy who’s also handsome with a decent package nothing too above average. I have beautiful lil feetsies that need lots of affection. You must be wiling to run errands for me and do what I asked of yo, If you aren’t ready to be my B1ch boy don’t message me I don’t have time to waste.
Not interested in bi men.
So I am a huge marshmallow, the sweetest woman you’ll ever meet. I have a bubbly personality and wear my heart on my shoulders. I love LOVE and desire it in its purest and true form. I am naturally submissive and want to submit to my HIM. I’m nurturing, extremely affectionate and yearn to be with my man any chance I get.
I am looking for a dom that fulfills my emotional needs; one who makes me feel safe in his arms and presence. Just as my dom needs to earn my trust and submission I aim to do the same for his dominance. Respect is key.
I’mtoo soft hearted. I can be emotional. I just want to be loved and to love. I want someone I can be freaky with, but more than anything I want someone I can feel safe with. Looks are important to a point and after that dull conversation and someone who shows no real intelligence is boring. I am independent and I can handle my own, but I want someone who can let me feel like a woman without feeling guilty for being cared for. I give my loyalty, heart, trust, and submission only to someone who shows me they deserve it.
I am: your princess, your good girl, your slut or whore, your cumdump, and your mommy (I like being called this regardless of my mood though if I’m feeling dommy I would prefer this), yours and absolutely no one else’s
I am not: your mistress, your goddess, your domme, your queen, a slave, a little, here to be used for pleasure only and given none
For the love of all things good and not so holy, I am not a dominant person stop coming to me asking me to domme you. I do NOT want to be the dominant person; I am submissive.
Ask me to be your mistress or to be my slave and I’ll be blunt and tell you no. I will call you out for it too. If you can’t take the time to respect what I wrote I won’t bother coddling you.
Honestly I’m not expecting much. This is new to me and while I can be outgoing I’m a fairly shy person at first. I’d love to meet someone and explore an intimate and romantic relationship if possible. I’m a romantic woman at heart, but past experiences and traumas make the physical aspects a little hard for me. That’s not a thing to pity or feel sorry over, simply the truth. I want to overcome that though and I’ve found BDSM has a healing aspect to it for myself. I like to tease a lot via texting/phone calls and I may seem forward, but in person I will need some patience to grow more comfortable. Submission is something I want to give to someone who makes me feel safe and who will take control so I do not have to. I can also be dominant, but I prefer a soft domme take on things.
I am not dominant. Just because I can be doesn’t mean it’s my usual go to. I’m not interested in being a mistress or anyone’s goddess quite frankly. I’m a princess, a good girl, or mommy if I’m feeling my domme side.
🥀Curvy, Kinky and Done Being The Boss🥀
Hello. Let’s lead with the best part: I am a proud, beautiful BBW who knows exactly what she brings to the table. If you view my profile and say nothing, I will assume my body type isn’t of your liking and I will not pursue you, as I respect your preference.
I’m here seeking a true Dominant, a partner in this kink life, not a temporary distraction. If you’re looking for a quick hook-up, keep scrolling; I’m interested in depth, connection, and a dynamic that lasts.
I am a Switch by nature, but my heart lives in submission. After years of taking the lead in my life and past relationships, I am ready to let go of the reins. I crave a hand that guides me through sensory play, soft bondage, and impact. I live for praise, thrive under orgasm control, and deeply value the intimacy of aftercare.
A note for the right man📝: While I desire to be your submissive, I do love the sound of a man's praise. Every so often, I might take charge just long enough to make you beg while I pleasure you—a rare treat for us both. However, if you are strictly a Top, I am more than happy to remain at your feet.⛓️
I know my worth and my beauty. If plus-sized women aren't your preference, or if you can't handle a "no" with maturity, let’s save each other the time. To the Alpha who sees the woman behind the kink: I’m waiting.💋
Not here looking for a random hookup. I want to find a permanent experienced Dom that can lead, protect and provide. I am very sensitive but also very bratty. 🤭 I would love to marry my permanent dom and let him breed me whenever he pleases. I will be his free use slave/ pet everyday of the week.
***I dont have the desire to be shared or to share****
I'm here to talk with others and see where things go. If possible, I want to find someone who can tie me up.
I love ***s, being outside, video games, anime, and crocheting.
Ask me anything!
Also... apologies in advance because I'm pretty forgetful because I get wrapped up in whatever I'm doing. I blame the neurodivergence.
(I’m not poly!! Respectfully I don’t want to be your third
I’ve been a sub for 10+ years, long story…... I’m a sarcastic brat/little with a kind heart. Hopefully I can make new friends and meet new people and when the time is right find my person, I’m in no rush. I know what I’m looking for, and my standards for a Dom are high. I don’t settle and I won’t settle for less.
If your looking for a “sub” to just use and take advantage of that’s not me. I don’t trade pictures.
I don’t do hook ups or w.e you would like to call it so if that’s what you want don’t even message me, that would be a waste of both our times. l intend on leaving a little sparkle everywhere I go ✨✨
If you wanna talk and get to know me don’t be shy just message me.
-Talk to me nice or don’t talk to me twice. I’m not a sexual object, you are not my Dom. I’m a human treat me like one. I will definitely block you.
I am looking for something fun and exciting that has the potential to turn into something more. I’m looking for someone who will help me explore this kinkier side of myself but not just for his own benefit. I’ve had lots of offers for one-nighters, which I am not interested in. Playing around is great, but I would like to find a consistent, full-time play partner who I can relax with.
I love rough fucking, being used as a fuck toy for someone’s pleasure, being ***d, spanked, taking my punishments, sucking cock. All kinds of fun things. I will try most anything at least once, maybe even twice unless it involves my limits. I have a very open mind-it takes quite a bit to offend me.
420 friendly
I like ***, just not extreme ***. *** to the correct areas will give me the most amazing orgasms.
Caveat emptor. I can be clingy. And bratty. And bitchy. But, I can also be a very good girl for the right man ??
If I only know you from Fet and you see me in public, no, you didn’t.
Limits:
Marks that a bathing suit can’t cover
***
***
***
Extreme ***
Feet (my own, please don’t touch)
*** regarding my body
Drama
Not currently willing to see anyone who is married or in a relationship.
I love to be called good girl. I love good morning and good night texts. I love cuddling and touching that isn’t sexual.
And, if you’ve made it this far I think you should know I am a big girl. I’m chubby. I throw this out there because some guys aren’t into that and I get it. I’m 5’1”. I weigh about 200 pounds. I have big tits. I don’t really have any full body pics because I don’t like having pics taken but if we are chatting and hitting if off, I might agree to send you something if you ask nicely ☺️
That’s the sexy stuff. Send me a message and we can talk about the other stuff ?
This about me is a work in progress, so I will update it as I think of things to add.
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